Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray Talk Wedding Planning: 'Everything Revolves Around the Dress'
10/14/2014 AT 09:45 PM EDT
That's Andi Dorfman's approach to wedding planning, she and fiancé Josh Murray told PEOPLE Monday at The Knot Gala in New York.
"The dress is kind of our first step," said the former Bachelorette, 27. "As a woman, I am just going to go ahead and say everything revolves around the dress. So, we will pick the theme, we will pick the venue, and we will pick the place based on the dress, I think."
And it sounds like dress shopping is a joint endeavor.
"He's actually really good with outfits. So, usually he is like, 'Heck, no!' and sometimes he is like, 'That's amazing!' " Dorfman reveals.
"I am better with my visuals. I got to see it on," adds Murray, who turned 30 this summer. "Yes or no, whether it hurts her feelings or not, I am going to tell her."
The couple haven't picked a date for the wedding yet. "We like spring or summer," Murray says. "Not when it's too hot, though, because I am a sweater."
And what are they most looking forward to about married life?
"I want that second ring!" Dorfman says. Adds Murray: "She wants more bands for this rock right here. That's what she is looking forward to."
While their search for love is over, it's just beginning for Chris Soules – one of the suitors on Dorfman's season of The Bachelorette, who will be the next star of The Bachelor.
Dorfman and Murray reveal they did give Soules a pep talk about his upcoming adventures.
"Josh is good friends with him, and he was always really kind to me, so we gave him some advice," says Dorfman. "I think we told him, 'Be true to yourself, and go find a wife.' "