"I don't get when I read about how I'm jealous of Jimmy talking to other women," King Edmonds, 30, tells PEOPLE. "Especially his ex-wife Alison because that couldn't be farther from the truth. I'm literally friendly with all of Jimmy's ex-girlfriends that I've met."
Edmonds also had a close relationship with Jim's late wife LeAnn before she lost her battle with cancer last month.
And despite reports that her marriage to the former MLB player is currently on the rocks, the reality star says the couple is doing better than ever.
"People will say what ever they want," she says. "Things are really good. We've become stronger than we were before."
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And the same goes for her relationship with Jim's two young children, Landon and Sutton, with his ex-wife.
"They are awesome," says King Edmonds of her stepchildren. "I love them so much and they call my parents Honey and Big Pappi. They love my parents. We're just kind of a family in that way when we have the kids."
But she admits that their blended family wasn't always so cohesive.
"It took a while to get there and it was hard at first but now it's awesome."