Granted, it's not exactly The Simple Lifewhen the setting is a Mediterranean-style mansion and the guy flipping burgers is the Beverly Hilton's executive chef. Still, the low-key barbecue that Paris Hilton and Paris Latsis threw for 75 friends and relatives at their L.A. home on May 30 to celebrate their happy news—they're engaged! —was perhaps as close to real as it gets for the hotel heiress and the Greek shipping heir. From noon to 8 p.m., guests sipped margaritas, swam and videotaped the giddy pair as they played with friends' kids, jumped on a blow-up trampoline and kissed for family cameras. Of Hilton, a guest says, "I've never seen her as happy and in love."

Linked romantically since December, the two Parises haven't yet set a date for what Hilton promises will be "a huge wedding, like a fairy tale." So who's her prince? The grandson of late shipping tycoon Yannis Latsis, Paris is a twentysomething described by a family friend as "an intelligent charmer." An expert skier and solid tennis player who had a reputation back in Athens as a party-happy "wild boy," he now seems focused on avoiding missteps. Prior to proposing, he took Hilton's parents, Kathy and Rick, to dinner to ask for Paris's hand in marriage. To them, says family friend R. Couri Hay, "he is totally beyond completely acceptable." He's got the right idea about rings—Latsis has selected 10 10-to-15-carat diamonds, and will let Hilton, 24, make the final choice. But what about the name problem? So far, the couple don't seem in a hurry to differentiate. At the barbecue, says a guest, "whenever she would pass by, she would yell, 'Hey, fiancé!' and he would answer back, 'Yes, fiancée!' It was very cute."

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