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When Paula Deen finally stopped living in denial about having type 2 diabetes at the end of 2011, she cut down on carbs, cut back on portions, doubled up on greens and dropped 40 lbs. Her family followed suit. First, son Jamie, a dad of two, lost 45 lbs. by "eating like a 6-year-old," he says. "Six-year-olds eat the right portion sizes!" Next, Paula's 300-lb. husband, Michael Groover, faced a choice: schedule knee replacement surgery or lose weight. Because "I'm not fond of knives," he says, he shed 60 lbs. on a strict, doctor-supervised regimen. Meanwhile, Paula's younger son Bobby had faced his own demons 12 years earlier. "I didn't look or feel good, and I decided to get in shape," he says. "Exercise changed my relationship with food and I began to search for a balance." Now the First Family of Food-they have 16 cookbooks, a magazine, three hit TV shows on air, six restaurants and a line of fresh and packaged food products due this spring-is influencing the next generation. "My grandsons would choose a carrot over a cookie," says Paula. "If it wasn't for the fact that they love butter so much, I'd question if they were really mine." But the older family members still need support. "Doing it together helps so much," says Paula. "It's just easier when y'all encourage one another and pull in the same direction." Pronounces Jamie: "If the Deens can do it, anyone can."

Paula

The Smaller Partions Diet

The 5'6" family matriarch, 66, dropped 10 more pounds since last summer by continuing to follow her new mantra. "It's all about moderation," she says. "I eat reasonable portions now. Tonight I treated myself to just half a piece of bread." She also gained peace of mind. "I'm sorry it took so long to finally admit that there was a flaw in my body," she says. "It's hard to believe, but diabetes has been a blessing." Best Tip Have a cheat day. "You can't deprive yourself all the time," she says.

Michael

The Doctor-Supervised Diet

Groover, 57, "used to get birthday cakes when it was nobody's birthday," says the 5'10" harbor pilot who wed Paula in '04. He began a program last June called OurSkinny: four protein shakes a day plus a healthy dinner. "It's tough to stay on a regimented diet, but I'm committed," he says. "When I used to diet, I'd eat a donut and think I screwed up, so I'd eat a dozen. Now I've learned if you fall off the wagon, you just jump back on." Best Tip Bring low-cal salad dressing to restaurants. "Most have so much fat you're not eating healthy," he says.

Jamie

The Busy Dad Diet

Becoming a father was the catalyst for Jamie, 45. "Unlike Bobby, I don't have time to go to the gym," he says, "so I have to watch what I consume more." The 6'3" star of the Food Network's Home for Dinner with Jamie Deen stopped eating after 6 p.m. and cut down on carbs-"anything I used to put on bread, I now put on lettuce," he says. Best Tip Weigh yourself daily for motivation. "If I'm up a few pounds, I drink more water and have a salad for lunch," he says.

Bobby

The Beat Your Genes Diet

"I'm Paula Deen's kid," says the 5'9" Cooking Channel star who grew up often wearing "jeans from the husky department." Twelve years ago he stopped "eating whatever was in front of me-and started taking care of myself." He lost 33 lbs. eating veggies and fish, and still hits the gym daily-a 3½ mile run and 60-90 minutes of weight lifting. "Eighty percent of the time I'm careful about what I eat," says Deen, 42. Best Tip Be creative. "I make parsnip fries instead of French fries."