Holding hands with her fellow Angels at the Aug. 27 Emmys "gave me confidence," says Fawcett. Photo by: Mathew Imaging / FilmMagic
Farrah's Fight Against Cancer| Farrah Fawcett
Despite their ups and downs over the years, O'Neal and Fawcett have always turned to each other in times of need. When O'Neal was diagnosed with chronic myelogenous leukemia in 2001, Fawcett helped nurse him back to health. "They are each the loves of each other's lives," says Nevius. For Fawcett, at the moment, O'Neal is also a loving caretaker. "Ryan is a very independent guy," says Nevius, "but he is setting aside everything right now to be with her. Nobody in the world can make her laugh like Ryan does. And right now laughter is very important for her." As Dorsey says, "The doctors have said [her cancer] is curable, but she's got to go through some tough times."

As she goes through radiation treatments in the coming weeks, Fawcett will have to deal with side effects that can range from fatigue to diarrhea. Though Fawcett declined to speak to PEOPLE for this story, she sent word through her close friend Pat Van Patten: "Farrah says to tell you that she's feeling good, that everything is under control," says Van Patten. "She has chosen to have the aggressive treatment. There is a high curability for what she has. They are going to shrink the tumor. She's going to attack it. She said to tell you that she will be in a weakened condition for a while and won't look that good. But her spirits are good. Her father is here, and Ryan and her son are with her. She's going to take care of it."

Indeed, her father, James, 90, a retired oil field contractor, flew in from Houston to join O'Neal and Redmond at his daughter's side during her Oct. 9 chemo session. His trademark tough love is, say friends, just what she needs. "Her dad is somebody who doesn't believe in sitting around and complaining and feeling sorry for yourself," says Nevius. "He says you should get up and do something. In some ways, Farrah is very much her father's daughter. She gets her fighting spirit from him." It was the elder Fawcett who lightened the mood just before his daughter's chemo was administered. According to O'Neal, James asked the doctors who were milling around, "'Y'all have chemo too?' And they said, 'No, why?' and he said, 'Because you're all bald.' "