Friends and relatives rallied around Jason Young (at Michelle's Nov. 9 funeral). Says one friend: "They would have arrested him by now if they had anything." Photo by: TERRY CANTRELL / WRAL
Murder on a Quiet Street
And what about Young's relationship with Michelle Money, 30, who was Michelle's close friend and former sorority sister? Police say Young had been corresponding with Money almost daily by phone and e-mail in the three months before his wife's murder. "When we found out [about Money], we started looking a little closer" at Young, says Sheriff Donnie Harrison. As for Young's whereabouts the night of Nov. 2, a hotel receipt and telephone records show that he was "at certain places at certain times," says Richard Johnson, adding that Young "has not been ruled out as a suspect."

While police continue an investigation they say has been hampered by Young's silence, Michelle's loved ones struggle to cope with a staggering loss. She was raised in Sayville, N.Y., by her mother, Linda, 56, coach of her daughter's JV cheerleading squad, and her father, Alan, 55, an automobile dealer (they divorced in 1996). Although Linda is still too distraught to talk to the press about her daughter's death, she did correspond by e-mail with PEOPLE. "Even as a child," she wrote, "you could see how nurturing she was, with her Cabbage Patch Kids and with her younger sister Meredith. She had lots of friends and we always had pool parties and sleepovers." Close friend Jennifer Powers says of Michelle, "She was incredibly smart, very focused, a real joiner. I hate to use the word popular, but she was – in every sense of the word." At North Carolina State University, Michelle scored straight A's before earning a master's in accounting and passing her CPA exams on her first try. "She was good at everything" says lifelong friend Marybeth Loughlin. "She cheered at the opening ceremonies of the Olympics in Atlanta; who can say that? That was so Michelle. She was really someone to look up to."

Friends say the same about Jason Young. A former Boy Scout who loved the outdoors and once hiked the 2,050-mile Appalachian Trail, "he's one of those guys who made friends with everyone," says Layton Parker, who went to the same Brevard high school as Young. "He never said anything negative. He had a magnetic personality." His mother, Patricia, a fifth-grade teacher, raised him after his father died when Jason was a child. He met Michelle when both were students at North Carolina State University; they married in 2003 and later settled in Enchanted Oaks, living what seemed like a busy, ordinary life. "Michelle had a huge network of friends," says Loughlin, "and there were always parties, barbecues, football games, baby showers and birthdays."