"Her weight isn't what's important at this point," says the CW's Ostroff of Banks. Photo by: Jim Spellman / Wireimage
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That only seems to be working in her favor. Her talk show is now entering its second season – some in the industry see her as the heir to her idol Oprah Winfrey – and the most recent season of Top Model delivered its strongest ratings ever. (Model's eighth season begins Feb. 28.) Indeed, it appears that by adding a little padding, Banks the businesswoman has earned a bit of credibility. "[TV execs] think it's better when I'm at 155 lbs. – at 145, they feel I'm not as relatable," she explains.

Now if only she could find a man to feel the same way. Despite a few high-profile romances – her past loves include director John Singleton and NBA star Chris Webber – Banks says her recent dates have had a hard time coping with her career. "They have to understand my schedule – I'm a very busy woman!" Another obstacle: accepting that the Banks they see on TV – you know, the one with "the hair weaves and false eyelashes" – is not the Banks they'll get at home. "They want to date me, then after a while you wake up and they are like, 'What's this?' " she says. "This is a creation my team put together. That's my biggest insecurity."

But not, she wants to make clear, the number on the scale. "I've made millions of dollars with the body I have, so where's the pain in that?" she says. "If I was in pain, I would have dieted. The pain is not there – the pain is someone printing a picture of me and saying those [horrible] things."

Besides, Banks is having a lot more fun these days eating the pancakes off a friend's plate at IHOP than trying to fit into designer sample sizes. Of course, if someone would come up with a miracle cure for cellulite, she's not above admitting she'd be first in line. "I think every woman," she says, "would want to do something about their cellulite!"

• By Allison Adato. Amy Elisa Keith in Los Angeles
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