Though Spears has had ups and downs with her mother, Lynne, 51, and father Jamie, 54, the three (in '06) still get along. Photo by: SPL / SPLASH NEWS
Britney's Road In & Out of Rehab| Britney Spears
And she continued partying. She kicked off the New Year with a scheduled appearance at Pure Nightclub in Las Vegas, where she sparked controversy by having members of her posse escort her out around 1 a.m. Though Web sites reported she was so drunk she collapsed, her manager Larry Rudolph denied the charge, saying she was simply "real tired." Either way, from there it got worse: shots of her out without her underwear, accounts of her donning a stripper's bikini and dancing on a bar top, stories of her passing out at the Gramercy Park Hotel bar in Manhattan on Feb. 10.

When on Jan. 21 her aunt Sandra Covington died of ovarian cancer, Spears returned to her hometown for the funeral. "Britney was able to go to the cemetery without anyone bothering her," says a family friend. "She couldn't stay for long though. She was in and out of town with the boys. She doesn't have time to stop, and that's part of the problem. She doesn't have time to stop and think."

Or listen. As her friends and family in Kentwood have watched her spiral out of control, "They are worried," says one close friend. "Britney's life in Hollywood and New York is so different from life here at home." Gregory Pittman, 23, an emergency room nurse in Hammond, La., who has been close to Spears and her family since they were children, is just one who has tried to talk to her. "We told her she needs to get control over what's going on," he says. Her response, he adds, "is always she was old enough to do what she wants to do." As another source puts it, "When everybody you surround yourself with is on the payroll, they say, 'Yes, yes, yes.' Who is there to say, 'Put on some underwear'? No one is there to protect you from yourself."