Tori! Tori! Tori!
updated 04/10/2006 AT 01:00 AM EDT
•originally published 04/10/2006 AT 01:00 AM EDT
In the show, you tackle all the jokes about yourself. How does it feel to be the one to make the joke?
It's been really freeing. I've been a target my entire life. At this point, there's nothing anyone can say that will faze me. Bring it on! It's more material for the show.
So you're beyond being offended?
VH1 and Out magazine are [throwing] a party for the show, and they're hiring Tori drag queens! They were like, "Does that offend you?" Of course it doesn't offend me! There's this famous drag queen called Suppositori Spelling. I'm like, "You have to find her!"
In the show you have a close relationship with the woman who was your nanny growing up. Is that based on real life?
Yes. I had a nanny who was like a second mother to me [she has since passed away]. She was the biggest influence on me growing up. When I think about how I want to raise a child, it's always things she taught me. I got my manners from her, for example. I wanted to pay homage to her; she would be so excited.
When the Tori character dates, it seems the guy always has an ulterior motive—either money or an acting job.
I've had that experience—I'd go on a couple of dates and think everything was great, and then I'd get a call and he'd say, "Hey, can you ask your dad [TV producer Aaron Spelling] if I can audition for his show?"
You're a producer of pSo NoTORIous—have you always wanted to emulate your dad in that respect?
I always wanted to learn about that world. On summer vacations since I was 5 years old, I would go to the office with him every day if I could and pretend I was his assistant. When my brother wanted to play with toys, I wanted to go to the [Dynasty] set and hang out with Joan Collins!
Your mother on the show is a pretty unlikeable character—is it true your real mom isn't speaking to you because of it?
It's not true. My family knows the mother is not based on my mother. I like the mother-daughter dynamic on the show, because I think it's a difficult relationship, and that's something my mother and I have always shared. But that should never be taken as "we don't love each other."
So you're a daddy's girl?
Oh, yeah, I've always been a daddy's girl. I had these huge brown eyes when I was little, and I would always look at him and bat my eyelashes, and he'd always say, "Okay."
What are some of the extravagant things your dad did for you when you were little?
When I graduated from elementary school we had a big party at my house, and the USC marching band came! One year for my birthday, a plane flew by and dropped a Madame Alexander doll on a big X in our backyard.
And is the gift-wrapping room real?
My mom has two gift-wrapping rooms: one upstairs and one downstairs.
These days, are you all on your own financially?
I've worked since I was 16, so I pay for everything with my own money. Well, sometimes my dad will take me aside and give me a $20 bill. He'll be like, "Buy yourself something, honey." It's so adorable!
Is your divorce from Charlie Shanian finalized?
No. Dean's divorce is final, but mine is not yet. All is fine, and it'll be finalized this year.
How are your wedding plans going?
I haven't even found a dress. I swore I would not be as maniacal as I was with my first wedding. This time all I care about is marrying Dean and being with him forever.