While Baby William Grows, Diana Shrinks—but She'll Never Be a Shrinking Violet
updated 11/29/1982 AT 01:00 AM EST
•originally published 11/29/1982 AT 01:00 AM EST
Gossip about Diana's health was further fueled when, in a serious breach of protocol, the Princess arrived later than the Queen at the Festival of Remembrance, an annual commemoration of the war dead held at London's Royal Albert Hall this month. The Sun speculated her "craze for slimming" had sparked a fight with Charles and prevented the couple from arriving together. A few days later the palace scotched the anorexia nervosa rumors.
Diana and the Queen are close, but the family sometimes disapproves of the Princess' unaccustomedly modern notions: Diana was firmly overruled, for instance, when she told her in-laws that she would be taking Prince William with her on a trip to Australia in the spring. And newspapers reported that Di had a row with Charles when the couple were penned up at Balmoral Castle in rainy Scotland. In the end, Charles left his hunting and escorted his wife back to London, where she embarked on an aggressive shopping spree. Later, the Queen Mother is said to have taken Diana aside and had a word with her. The perfectionist Diana evidently rattles her retainers. According to one account, a friend of the family said, "If her shoes are cleaned, she wants them put back precisely in line in the cupboard. She is obsessed that everything around her be perfect." Surely she deserves her in-laws' sympathy. As one relative has noted, "She has been under a lot of pressure, and to expect her to smile and look radiant all the time is too much."