02/13/1995 at 01:00 AM EST
>Timing counts, as Allan Chochinov and Victoria Brown note in Before & After You Fall in Love (St Martin's, $5.99):
Before: "Don't Stop!" After: Don't start.
Before: $60.00/doz After: $1.95/stem
Before: "I'm having such a hard time getting him to put his defenses down." After: "I'm having such a hard time getting him to put the seat down."