After All Those Little White Lies, the Lady Fesses Up: Patty Isn't Loveless Anymore
"It's time to own up," Loveless has admitted to PEOPLE. Truth is, she says, she is married—to record producer Emory Gordy Jr., 45—and has been for 1½ years. The two met in 1985 while working on Loveless's debut album and were married in February 1989 at a tourist chapel in Gatlinburg, Tenn. "We kept it a secret mainly because I wanted to come across as a strong person, a strong artist, and get established on my own," says Loveless. Divorced just two years earlier from rock drummer Terry Lovelce (whose name she kept but altered), Loveless says, "I didn't want to appear wishy-washy. I wanted to appear in control of my life."
It apparently has worked. She racked up a No. 1 single last year with "Timber, I'm Fallin' in Love," has a fourth album (On Down the Line) on the charts and stands a good shot at being named Female Vocalist of the Year at the Country Music Association awards (CBS, Oct. 8). But the singer, a distant cousin of Loretta Lynn, insists that fame hasn't made secret-keeping any tougher than it was before. After all, she spends eight months on tour each year and lives in her own apartment near Nashville's studios, while Gordy, who has two grown children from his first marriage, lives 210 miles away in Dallas, Ga. ("He's very good about it," says Loveless, who reports seeing Gordy a few times a month. "He says, 'We knew what we were getting into.' ")
And now, of course, so does everyone else, including any would-be suitors. "I'm definitely a one-man woman," says Loveless contentedly. "And I'm glad I finally found that one man."