Sticks and Rolling Stones
Not that the message matters much to the onetime fashion model and Syracuse University econ grad. Unemployed and barely getting by ("I don't eat much"), he devotes up to 60 hours a week in pursuit of his obsession. "I see this as more a work of art than a collection," he says, sitting in the tiny Manhattan apartment he shares with (at last count) 668 drumsticks (548 others—insured for $400,000—are on display in Cleveland's Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and Museum). "I guess I should have been a stockbroker or something," he says, "but I just never wanted to go there."
Raised on Long Island, N.Y., by an internist father and psychotherapist mother (both now deceased), Lavinger began the stick shift at age 16 when he snared a pair of drumsticks hurled into a concert audience by Joe Franco of the Good Rats. Since then he has met the likes of Mick Jagger ("I like your audacity, kid," he says Jagger told him), Pink Floyd singer-guitarist David Gilmour and Charlie Watts (his favorite drummer boy). "He has all my heroes' sticks," gushes former Pearl Jam drummer Dave Abbruzzese.
Lavinger is still trying to track down Mitch Mitchell from the Jimi Hendrix Experience and other elusive rockers. And he allows that his mission may be too ambitious for a single lifetime. Someday, he says, "I gotta have a son who I can teach this to."