updated 03/27/2000 AT 01:00 AM EST
•originally published 03/27/2000 AT 01:00 AM EST
Atkins was joking, but broken marriages are no laughing matter for Grant, 39, and Gill, 42, who met in 1993 doing his Christmas concert in Tulsa. Their increasingly close friendship contributed to the end of his 18-year marriage to musician Janis Gill, 46, in 1998, and to the breakup last year of Grant's long-troubled 16-year marriage to singer-songwriter Gary Chapman, 42 (who announced his engagement to animal trainer Jennifer Pittman in February). But when the Rev. Mack Hannah began the ceremony at 4:30 p.m., the past was clearly, finally, past. Moments earlier, Grant had slipped off her cream-colored ballet slippers and taken her place next to Gill. A few steps away stood Gill's daughter Jenny, 17, and Grant's three children, Matthew, 12, Millie, 10, and Sarah, 7. As bride and groom exchanged vows they had written, Grant's voice grew ever softer, and Gill struggled to hold back tears. "After they kissed, they embraced. They just needed to hold each other," says a friend. "Everybody was crying—everybody—because we've seen them go through so much."
With eyes dried and hearts lifted—thanks to the skirl of bagpipes played by kilt-wearing pipers coming up the hill—Grant, Gill and the wedding guests arrived at Grant's rented home in the posh Nashville neighborhood of Green Hills, along with 450 other guests invited to the backyard reception. But who had time to watch the newlyweds' first dance (to Celine Dion's "Because You Loved Me") with all that pecan-crusted grouper to be eaten? Responding to Gill's and Grant's request for "simple and easy" fare, Florida chef Tim Creehan prepared a menu including seared yellowfin tuna, a Caesar-salad bar and Grant's favorite—tomato, basil and mozzarella salad—for which Creehan hand-made the cheese in Grant's backyard. "We began setting up at 10 a.m. and 12 hours later I finally sat down," he says with a laugh. No one doubted that the occasion merited the effort—apparently not even Janis, Gill's ex. "I was talking to her and telling her that when two people love each other as much as these two do, they should be together. They just have to be," says Nashville's high-society hairstylist Riqúe. "And she agreed. You know, life goes on."
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