09/02/2002 at 01:00 AM EDT
Like a glamorous version of the Griswolds, Bruce Willis
, Demi Moore
and their three girls take family vacations seriously. On July 4 the former couple whistled and cheered from a balcony at a parade in tiny Hailey, Idaho. A couple of weeks later the pair—with Rumer, 14, Scout, 11, and Tallulah, 8—trekked through Disney World. Next up was a trip to the White House, where they met President Bush. And on Aug. 18 the family enjoyed a cozy brunch with Willis's mom in Santa Monica.
But those wishing Mom and Dad will become husband and wife again might be disappointed. Four years after their split, Willis, 47, and Moore, 39, are not an item. Willis continues to play the field, and sources say Moore is still dating Hailey martial-arts instructor Oliver Whitcomb, 32. "They may not be together, but they get along beautifully," says Hart's War producer David Ladd, who spent time with them in Prague last year. "They are putting their kids first."