updated 09/13/2004 AT 01:00 AM EDT
•originally published 09/13/2004 AT 01:00 AM EDT
After the ceremony, which featured a gospel choir singing "Ain't No Mountain High Enough," the bride, 40, and groom, 37, joined their 200 guests (including 10 nieces and nephews in the wedding party) for a reception at a Montecito estate. A 6-ft.-tall wedding cake topped with a crystal "M&P" provided a sweet finish for the couple. "They're mad about each other," says Oren. "And they're hilariously funny together."