updated 01/12/2004 AT 01:00 AM EST
•originally published 01/12/2004 AT 01:00 AM EST
Months after DeWitt's funeral, Stamen quit her job, and with help from friends in the business and charity worlds she embarked on a mission: to give others the future he would never have. The result is the Teak Fellowship, a Manhattan-based organization that helps poor teens gain admission to some of the country's most elite high schools. "I think of it as a Rhodes Scholarship for middle school students," says Stamen, who runs the program with a staff of eight in New York's Chelsea neighborhood. "Thomas Jefferson said we should be an aristocracy of talent, that people should rise and fall by their abilities. But it isn't like that. And that's why I'm here."
Funded by private donations and corporate gifts, Teak selects promising students in the seventh grade from New York City public schools. Called "fellows," they attend weekend and after-school classes, summer boot-camp sessions and receive academic counseling plus training in phone skills, interview techniques and even diction. Most go on to private schools, which pick up tuition, while Teak foots the bill for most other expenses. All of the 20 original fellows, now high school seniors, are applying to college. "They always tell you at Teak that you can do it," says Stephanie Hiciano, 17. The daughter of Dominican immigrant parents and a senior at Manhattan's posh Convent of the Sacred Heart, she hopes to attend Stamen's alma mater: Brown.
Still, the gulf between prep school and the inner city can be vast. "One time I was taking the bus home, and when it stopped in front of my place, somebody said, 'Who lives here?' " says Thai Vu, 17, a senior at the elite Riverdale Country School who lives on a tough block in Spanish Harlem. "That was hard to hear." To help bridge the gap, Stamen takes fellows on field trips to museums and plays, and in 2002 arranged a special dinner with Bill and Hillary Clinton. "To see them sit down to dinner with a former President and a senator, that brought tears to my eyes," she says.
An only child of divorced parents, Stamen, who attended a private school in Los Angeles growing up, developed a social conscience young, volunteering in a local homeless shelter as a teen. But it was only after her best friend, Teak Dyer, was murdered by a stranger at the end of their senior year in high school that she committed to a career helping others. Graduating from Brown in 1992, Stamen moved to New York City, where she made another friend who died too young. Within two years of DeWitt White's death, Stamen had raised $400,000 to launch Teak (named for her friend) and now hopes to create a $3.5 million permanent endowment to help an ever-growing number of needy students. If she eventually reaches that lofty goal, Stamen says all credit should go to the young pianist from The Bronx. "I couldn't have done any of this without DeWitt," she says. "His death kicked me into gear."
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