In a wide-ranging interview, Latifah gives the royal treatment to topics like:
Her breast-reduction surgery ..."It took me about a year and half to really do it. I didn't want to get it. But I had lost 25 lbs. and my breasts didn't go anywhere! I was still carrying that load. I didn't quite want them to be this small. [laughs] I was a little p----- about that."
Big being beautiful ..."It's good for regular girls because the meter [for beauty] has been a slim white girl. Beauty is not just a white girl. It's so many different flavors and shades. [In Hollywood] we've definitely gotten better with body type. It used to be just me!"
Being a commitment-phobe ..."I'm working on it! I'm getting a little commitment therapy. I just never placed any expectations on a relationship to go but so far. Everyone is fallible. Somebody's going to make a mistake. But at the same time a part of me always wanted to grow up, get married and have kids. So it's like you're torn between two places."
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