Britney Spears and Larry Rudolph
11/21/2008 AT 10:30 AM EST
Although Britney Spears
admits in a new film that she "totally lost my way
, lost focus, lost myself," that won't stand in the way of her comeback, says her manager.
"She's definitely ready," Larry Rudolph tells PEOPLE, following a sneak peek of Spears's riveting MTV documentary, Britney: For the Record
, airing Nov. 30, in Santa Monica, Calif.
"She loves to work," he says. "She's a very strong person. Everybody goes through setbacks in their lives. [But] every day, I see her getting happier and stronger."
One of her biggest victories this year? Regaining visitation with Preston, 3, and Jayden, 2, her sons with ex-husband Kevin Federline
So while her musical comeback is important, Spears has made it clear that motherhood comes first, says Rudolph.
"Her kids and balancing her life with her kids is an incredible priority – the No. 1 priority in terms of how I operate with her," he says.
Spears's boys can be seen in the film, which follows the pop star over three months as she records her upcoming album Circus
, wins big
at September's MTV Video Music Awards, and speaks frankly about her problems – including her failed relationships
with Federline and Justin Timberlake
The idea for the candid documentary sprung up during a conversation Spears and Rudolph had over dinner several months ago.
"It evolved and became a question of, What will she do? What will she say? How will she say it?" he says. "How will people view her after what she's been through and after all that they've seen in the tabloids over the past year or two?"
Adds Rudolph: "This became sort of a great way for her to say what she needs to say on her terms."
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