Richard Ascroft for Best Life
03/03/2009 AT 01:00 PM EST
Sultry Victoria's Secret model Selita Ebanks may not have a particular type – her dating history includes Nick Cannon and tennis superstar James Blake – but she does know what she wants in a man.
"I'm a big sports fan, and nothing is more unattractive to me than a guy who doesn't appreciate ESPN," Ebanks, 26, tells Best Life
magazine for its April issue. "If I have to explain football or basketball, that's the biggest turn-off."
Among Ebanks's other demands: No rough play:
"Aggression doesn't belong in the home. And if he gets too excited by gore or violence on television, I'm out of there."
A firm grip:
"A man has to have big, strong hands to make me feel safe. When he makes me feel safe, I feel sexy"
No white socks:
"A man once walked up to me … and I saw he was wearing white socks with his suit! I would have beat anybody in the dash to get out of there."
A nice, white smile:
"I want to kiss something that looks like it would taste good."