Kendra Wilkinson's Love For Fiancé Has Limits

By Mark Gray

04/06/2009 at 10:30 AM EDT

Kendra Wilkinson would go to the ends of the earth for her fiancé, but she won't go to Oakland.

The Girls Next Door star, who has been dating Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver Hank Baskett since December, plans to accompany him to most of his games. But she will miss at least one.

Wilkinson, a vocal fan of the San Diego Chargers, is going to steer clear of their rivals, the Oakland Raiders. "There is no way I'm going to the Oakland game," she tells PEOPLE. "They are [the Chargers'] rival. I might get killed if I go. I told him I'm not going."

It will be a rare moment apart. "We're together every chance we get," she said while attending ex-boyfriend Hugh Hefner's 83rd birthday in Las Vegas at the Palms Place pool. "I'll spend most of my time in Philly during the [football] season."

The couple is busy planning their summer wedding. Invitations have been sent and the dress is being made for the ceremony that will take part in an unexpected location: The Playboy Mansion.

When asked whether the prospect of getting married at her ex-boyfriend's house is strange, Wilkinson said. "It would feel weird if the wedding wasn't at the Mansion. That's where all my friends and family are ... It's a beautiful place."

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