Nicole Richie & Lindsay Lohan Attend DJ AM Memorial
09/04/2009 AT 01:05 AM EDT
They were among hundreds of invited guests and a handful of fans who attended the memorial at the Hollywood Palladium, not far from the nightclubs where DJ AM – real name Adam Goldstein – gained fame at the turntables.
"He was my soulmate and now he is my soul," model Haley Wood, who dated Goldstein, told the crowd during the 2 1/2-hour memorial. "He is my amazing grace."
Goldstein was found dead Aug. 28 at age 36. The cause of death hasn’t been determined, but a law enforcement source tells PEOPLE that Goldstein, who had battled addiction, had OxyContin pills in his body and left evidence he was smoking crack.