"I just want to clear the air," Bensimon says at the beginning of a video posted on YouTube. "While filming the Real Housewives, there was a lot that happened but the most important thing that happened is one thing that I realized: Systematic bulling is never okay."
The reality star, 42, who recently told PEOPLE that she didn't have a nervous breakdown but rather a "nervous breakthrough" when she blew up at her costars, adds, "Four against one is never okay. Whether you're a 4-year-old or a 10-year-old or a 40-year-old woman, being bullied or ganged up on is never okay."
Her advice to those stuck in a similar situation: "Remove yourself," she says. And if you happen to witness someone getting bullied, "Help them." –Eunice Oh