09/26/2008 at 12:00 AM EDT
After publicly declaring they wanted to get hitched in the Bahamas
--where they'd fallen in love on The Bachelorette
and fianc Jesse Csincsak
's destination wedding may be changing destinations.
“At first we said the Bahamas and now we’re kind of torn between a few different places," Pappas told PEOPLE Thursday at the Fox Reality Channel Really Awards.
While they may not know where the wedding will take place, they do know what they'll be wearing.
"I’ll wear a white dress, some brown bridesmaid dresses, that’s all I care about," said Pappas, 26. As for the men, "We’re not going to wear tuxes," said Csincsak, 26."We’re going to get custom-made suits.I might wear some Nike 6.0’s instead of uncomfortable dress shoes.”
Comfortable shoes will be in order since the couple are planning an all-out celebration for their scaled-down
May 9, 2009 nuptials.“We want to do like a four-day weekend where you do a Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday," said Csincsak. "My family and her family can get together and do fun stuff.” Pappas added, “They get along very, very well. They love each other.”
In fact, the couple's families get along so well that they will be spending Thanksgiving together this year. "It will be at DeAnna’s place in Georgia,” said Csincsak. So who’s cooking the bird? According to Pappas, “There will be like forty there, so I assume we’ll all just put all of our hands together and get together, cook everything and enjoy ourselves." --Alondra Hernandez