Marc Anthony and Jennifer Lopez
07/15/2011 at 05:20 PM EDT
After seven years of marriage, it's over for Jennifer Lopez
and Marc Anthony.
"We have decided to end our marriage," they tell PEOPLE in a joint statement. "This was a very difficult decision. We have come to an amicable conclusion on all matters."
"It is a painful time for all involved," the statement continues, "and we appreciate the respect of our privacy at this time."
Lopez, 41, and Anthony, 42, wed
in June 2004 in a casual – and secret – ceremony at Lopez's Beverly Hills home.
They have two children
, 3-year-old twins Max and Emme.