08/22/2011 at 11:00 AM EDT
Real Housewives of Orange County
's Gretchen Rossi
and beau Slade Smiley
joined friends at Hard Rock Hotel San Diego's Intervention Pool Party, where they relaxed in a private cabana and sipped cocktails. At night, the two went to Nobu for dinner before heading home to Orange County. The night before their relaxing day, the reality stars celebrated with a friend at her bachelorette party.