Jake Gyllenhaal (left) and Olivia Wilde
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06/28/2011 AT 05:00 PM EDT
was cracking up and laughing with pals during a lively night at West Hollywood's Chateau Marmont
– but the actor gave special attention to one woman: Olivia Wilde
. The two were very flirty, an onlooker says, acting "touchy-feely." Says the onlooker: "At one point, he had his hand on hers." Still, the two weren't overly affectionate with each other. "Olivia
was very cool," the onlooker says, "and wasn't fawning over Jake but seemed to like the attention he was giving her." Alas, at the end of the evening the two went their separate ways. As for their relationship, the actress's rep tells us they're just friends.