Minka Kelly and Derek Jeter in 2010
Juan Soliz/Pacific Coast News
08/26/2011 at 08:25 AM EDT
After dating for three years, Minka Kelly and Derek Jeter have broken up, her rep confirms to PEOPLE.
"They care about each other and it was amicable," says a source. "They're still friends."
Kelly, 31, the star of the upcoming reboot of TV's Charlie's Angels
, was often seen at New York Yankees games cheering for Jeter, 37, and was in the stadium when he got his 3,000th hit
The very private couple
repeatedly dodged engagement rumors and were reluctant to talk about their relationship, though earlier this month they joked
about Kelly's lack of baseball knowledge.
Their split was first reported by JustJared.