James Marsden and Lisa Linde
10/01/2011 AT 02:00 PM EDT
09/30/2011 AT 09:00 PM EDT
After more than a decade of marriage, James Marsden
's wife Lisa Linde has filed for divorce.
Citing irreconcilable differences in court documents filed one week ago, Linde is seeking spousal support and joint legal and physical custody of the couple's two young children Jack and Mary.
"This was a mutual decision," Marsden's rep tells PEOPLE. "They are committed to raising their kids together and remain great friends."
"It's always been about being together and keeping the family together," the X-Men
and 27 Dresses
star, 38, told PEOPLE in 2008 of his then-happy marriage.
"When I'm not working, I want to be home, and that's all I want to do."