Lady Gaga: How to Stop Bullying One Compliment at a Time
03/01/2012 AT 10:50 AM EST
Asked by Time how an 11-year-old girl might follow Gaga's advice and become more empowered, the singer-songwriter, 25, replies: "She could go up to one person in class who maybe is not one of the cool kids and say, 'I really like your T-shirt.' That would be her one great loving and accepting deed for the day."
That would be a brave step, which is what the whole initiative is about – combatting meanness and cruelty and inspiring bravery in young people to work toward a more accepting society.
"I'm doing everything that I can, working with experts, really studying the statistics to figure out a way we can make it cool or normal to be kind and loving," says Gaga, who has said she was bullied in school.
Gaga acknowledges it will be long process to shift people's perceptions, but says one first step is not to demonize bullies.
"We do not make a distinction between the bully and the victim," she says. "Each person is an equally important and valuable member of society. What the foundation is about is a transformative change that is going to take a long time to affect the overall culture. Bullies were born this way, too."