Jennifer Lopez Isn't Giving Up on the 'Fairy Tale' of Marriage

By Dahvi Shira

07/17/2012 at 06:15 PM EDT

Jennifer Lopez had a change of heart.

The superstar, 42, who was unsure in January if she'd ever want to wed again, now says after three failed marriages, she still aspires to have the perfect union.

"For me, the biggest dream is the fairy tale," Lopez tells ABC News's Amy Robach, adding that "yes" she would give marriage another chance. "I will never give up on that dream."

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Although it's no secret that Lopez – who announced her split from Marc Anthony last summer – is smitten with her backup dancer Casper Smart, she played coy when asked about him, laughing and saying "nope" when asked if she'd discuss her current love life.

Smart, 25, however, was a bit more forthcoming when it came to talking about his leading lady.

"Sometimes I tell her something – you know, give her notes," says Smart, who is the chief choreographer and dancer on Lopez's tour. "Sometimes she gives me notes. But at the end of the day, it doesn't matter whose position is what, because she's the boss."

Even though the pair now seems inseparable, Smart insists it wasn't love at first sight for the couple.

"I don't think it was for either of us," he says. "It was very natural how it happened. There was nothing before. No flirting, nothing before. Just natural. It just happened."

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