Jenni "JWOWW" Farley and Roger Mathews
07/18/2012 at 10:00 AM EDT
might not be the only Jersey Shore
star tying the knot soon
Jenni "JWOWW" Farley and her long-term boyfriend Roger Mathews are also considering marriage, Farley tells PEOPLE.
"[Roger's] dad is dying
for us to get married," she says. "He wants grandchildren. He texts me almost every day for that."
"There's no rush ... no trophy for being first," says Mathews, who appears with his girlfriend on Snooki & JWOWW
. "But do we want to get married? Oh yeah. Absolutely."
Living with Mathews "takes a lot of pressure off" the marriage decision, Farley says, since it already feels like they're married. But in the end, she won't be satisfied until she gets a special token of their commitment.
"I just want a big ring," she says. "That's all I care about – a big ring."