Behind the Scenes at the Making of Gloriana's New Video

By Katie Kauss

11/17/2012 at 01:00 PM EST

Things are getting personal in Gloriana's new music video for their song "Can't Shake You.'

The country group's tune, written by band member Tom Gossin and friends, highlights the 10 years of ups and downs it took for him and his now fiancée Jaime to finally get together. (They're getting married next October).

"My career broke us up. Long distance was tough", Gossin tells PEOPLE. "[But] it turned out for the better."



Gossin, along with his brother, Mike, and bandmate Rachel Reinert, filmed the video at Silverado's a bar in Nashville, which resembles the bar in Willmington, N.C., where he first met Jaime while playing a show.

The band, who are nominated for three American Country Awards, asked fans to send in photos and mementos that reminded them of their own exes to be included in the video. "We got so many cool pictures, from babies, to pets, old sweatshirts," Gossin says.

The video for "Can't Shake You" premieres Monday on Gloriana.com.