Bethenny Frankel and husband Jason Hoppy with daughter Bryn
and Jason Hoppy are not seeing eye to eye as they begin divorce proceedings
– most notably because both sides reportedly want primary custody of daughter Bryn.
Hoppy has responded to Frankel's divorce petition by demanding from the reality-TV star almost exactly the same things she is demanding from him, TMZ.com
Both are seeking primary custody of Bryn, who will be 3 in May, as well as child support from their ex, along with money for other expenses, including insurance.
Both sides also want exclusive rights to their marital residence.
The Skinnygirl mogul
, 42, who first became famous on The Real Housewives of New York City
, split with Hoppy
late last year after almost three years of marriage.
She later said she felt like a failure
for not being able to make it work.
Hoppy has not commented publicly on the split, and neither his lawyers, nor Frankel's reps, immediately returned calls for comment.