Olivia Wilde 'Can't Wait' to Have Kids with Jason Sudeikis

03/11/2013 at 09:15 AM EDT

Olivia Wilde on Divorce & Meeting Jason Sudeikis
Olivia Wilde
Courtesy Marie Claire
Olivia Wilde is happy to have had her heart broken.

In the April issue of Marie Claire, the Incredible Burt Wonderstone actress credits the pain stemming from her 2011 divorce from Tao Ruspoli with bringing her to fiancé Jason Sudeikis.

"I had grown up with Tao; we had just drifted. I felt I had something to prove. If you fall off a horse, you get back up. I am not a quitter. I hung on for as long as possible, until it was more hurtful to stay ... I'm so grateful for the pain and the heartbreak. It gave me the courage to leave and brought me the great love of my life," she says.

Olivia Wilde 'Can't Wait' to Have Kids with Jason Sudeikis| Jason Sudeikis, Olivia Wilde

Olivia Wilde

Courtesy Marie Claire

Wilde, 29, also reminiscences about meeting Sudeikis, 37, for the first time at the finale of Saturday Night Live in 2011.

"I was just learning to be by myself. We were both seeing people but were single. He seemed to really see me, see through the b––t. He said very few words and couldn't keep eye contact. He was so handsome and he could dance," she says.

Six months later, the couple went out for the first time and Wilde reveals that she had her doubts. "I thought, 'He won't be interested in me; I'm not a contender.' He was so cool, so funny – I was such a fan of his and had always fancied his speed and his intelligence. He's a brilliant actor with a brain like lightening," she says. "I thought 'I'm not beautiful enough or his type.' I couldn't wait to sit down and hear him talk."

But after that first date in New York City, Wilde says the couple "closed down the restaurant at 2 a.m" and that while Sudeikis "didn't kiss" her she was "madly in love."

As the couple moves forward with their relationship, Wilde says she "can't wait for children."

"I'm open-minded about how many, but three, which I love, is like a little party. I am not trying to have kids now – there's no strict plan for anything in my life. What happens, happens. He's so good with kids ... I've never before experienced looking at someone and thinking, 'That's who I want to raise a child with.' "

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