Tenley Molzahn and Kiptyn Locke
Sara De Boer/Startraks
03/29/2013 at 08:00 AM EDT
stars Tenley Molzahn and Kiptyn Locke have ended their 2½-year relationship
In a joint statement the popular couple, who appeared on Bachelor Pad
in 2010, tell PEOPLE, "With love and respect, we decided to take a break in January. We are both focused on philanthropic and personal growth at this time, wishing each other the best. Thank you for respecting our privacy."
Both Molzahn and Locke were runners-up on their respective seasons of The Bachelor
and The Bachelorette
Molzahn lost out on receiving the final rose from Jake Pavelka, who instead proposed to Vienna Girardi. Bachelorette
Jillian Harris accepted a proposal from Ed Swiderski over Locke on the season 5 finale.
The couple end their statement by saying, "Thank you for your support always."