Clockwise from top left: Trista Reyn, Meredith Phillips, Jennifer Shefft, DeAnna Pappas, Jillian Harris, Ali Fedotowsky, Ashley Hebert and Emily Maynard
04/05/2013 at 02:00 PM EDT
is just getting her feet wet as next season's Bachelorette
, but of the eight women who preceded her, only two have ended up with everlasting love.
found the man of her dreams, fireman Ryan Sutter, back in 2003, and married in a televised special. (Now they have two kids and live in Colorado.) But the only other Bachelorette to make it all the way down the aisle thus far is Season 7 star Ashley Hebert, who married winner J.P. Rosenbaum
last December and settled into a normal life in Princeton, N.J.
Other seasons may not have resulted in weddings, but the unions did end with excitement. Jillian Harris kicked beau Ed Swiderski to the curb for cheating not long after he popped the question in 2009; Emily Maynard
, who had already broken up with Bachelor Brad Womack the year before, fought off rumors that she cheated on fiancé Jef Holm
After eight seasons of love and lies: