09/04/2013 at 11:00 AM EDT
recently admitted that she's going through a brutal time
in her divorce with Jason Hoppy, so it's not surprising that she's a little gun-shy about the idea of walking down the aisle again.
"I don't know that I would get remarried," the 42-year-old admits in October's Redbook
. "It's too soon to think about it. But I'd listen to my gut. All through reality television, being honest, saying what's on my mind – that was my gut."
The new daytime host, whose Bethenny
premieres on Sept. 9, has a lot on her plate. This includes juggling the new TV gig with her other business interests, such as her Skinnygirl cocktail brand, along with being a mom to her daughter, Bryn
Frankel, who's currently involved in a custody battle
with Hoppy, strives to put Bryn first, no matter how busy she is.
"I think that when you are with your child, you have to make sure it's quality time," she says. "Every day, Bryn and I do at least one quality thing together and I do one thing for myself. I no longer feel guilty about taking 45 minutes for myself, because we take time for us."