Kenya Moore and Apollo Nida
11/25/2013 AT 10:45 AM EST
The first bodies Phaedra Parks might well bury after finishing mortician school are those of her husband, Apollo Nida, and nemesis Kenya Moore
if the new mom
doesn't soon get the truth about whether the duo hooked up in L.A.
On Sunday's The Real Housewives of Atlanta"
, the ongoing "text-gate" between Nida and the former Miss USA, 42, was front and center.
"She went for my husband beyond those text messages, but it did not work clearly because Apollo was not looking for an old beauty queen with scrambled eggs," Parks, 40, joked at first. "When he wants that he goes to the Waffle House."
But the laughter ended quickly for Parks, who met her husband for a dinner date, hopeful the two could carve out some quality time in their hectic lives.
"I'm longing for some attention," Nida said after his wife arrived.
"My schedule right now is babies and dead people," Parks stated. "Men are a lot like toddlers: They need a lot of attention."
But all attention quickly turned to the question of whether Nida and Moore had sex when they happened to stay at the Beverly Wilshire Hotel.
Moore – who insisted to Kandi Burruss earlier in the show that there was "nothing inappropriate" about her text messages with Nida – said they had not seen each other in L.A., while Nida said the former beauty queen followed him back to the hotel from a party they had attended.
"She wanted to have sex in L.A.," Nida finally confided. "I chose not to. I left and went to another hotel … If I wanted to sleep with Kenya, I could have slept with Kenya, but I didn't."
"You should not have been responding to her texts," Parks said.
"I'm a grown man. You're not my mama," Nida replied.
"It's about her offering to s--- your ding-a-ling," Parks responded.
"I'm sick of talking about it," he said. "I've been transparent."
"I might have to kill him with this d--- steak knife," Parks snapped at the end of dinner.
To see if Nida comes clean, or, at least, "Apollo-gizes," tune into The Real Housewives of Atlanta
airing Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on Bravo.