Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck
12/09/2013 at 02:00 PM EST
has one person to thank for his recent slew of successful films: his wife, Jennifer Garner
In a new interview with Playboy
, Affleck, 41, says Garner, also 41, helped provide him with a stable home that separated him from a string of unsuccessful films and being tabloid fodder following his relationship with Jennifer Lopez
"My wife was definitely around then," says Affleck. "Getting to know her, falling in love with her and being connected with her
gave me a foundation to reach out and say, 'Okay, I'm going to do Hollywoodland
. I'm going to direct Gone Baby Gone
,' " Affleck said. "Those were the steps forward I needed to put positive stuff on the board."
, who married in 2005
and have three children, son Samuel
, 21 months, and daughters Violet, 7 ½ and Seraphina, 4 ½, now seem to be the poster duo
for secure and loving Hollywood families
, openly affectionate and praising each other's successes.
"She is by leaps and bounds the most important person to me in that respect," Affleck said of Garner's resolute support. "Over the past 10 years she has allowed me to have a stable home life while accomplishing my professional goals."
The soon-to-be Batman
added: "Once I'd made it, the most critical thing was that she said, 'If you're going to work 24 hours a day, that's cool. I'm going to be here.' That allowed me to think, Okay, that's what I'm going to do. I'm going to kill myself over this next period of time."