Ben Stiller and Calista Flockhart are reportedly thisclose, both of New York's tabloids have now reported. The Post broke the news last week, while today the News claims the "Something About Mary" actor, 33, and the "Ally McBeal" star, 34, first met at a charity dinner in Los Angeles, then went off to Santa Barbara the next weekend. "The one person who isn't thrilled about the relationship," says the News, "is actress Claire Forlani, who was said to be dating Stiller until he got close with Flockhart."