Don't look for Gwyneth Paltrow at the Shrine Auditorium this Sunday. In fact, don't even look for her in Los Angeles, reports PEOPLE's "Insider" column, Paltrow, 28, a former belle of the Oscar ball -- and the winner of the 1999 best actress statuette for "Shakespeare in Love" -- is taking a break from the Hollywood party circuit. "Sometimes it's good to get away from that scene," she told PEOPLE. So where will the actress be Oscar night? At home in her New York City apartment, curled up on the couch and watching it on TV, like most of the populace. No word, though, on what snacks will be at her side. Or who.