03/10/2004 AT 03:21 PM EST
Ever since Phillips, 30, and McKee, 29, sealed their romance with a kiss (and a $75,000, 3.25 carat engagement ring), the pair have been adjusting to life without the cameras and making plans for the future. In the meantime, Phillips, a former catalog model, recently hit the catwalk in khakis for a Dockers for Women fashion show, and she talked to PEOPLE about her new life with Ian.
How have things been going since the show ended? Have you both had time to relax?
We are still relatively busy doing interviews, relaxing when we can – watching movies and just hanging out and being together. I just met about all of his friends so we had a really good weekend last weekend and it was fun. He has a lot of friends – they're all like a family, which I enjoy – really likeable and would do anything for you.
How has being in the public eye affected your relationship?
We have such a good relationship. Neither one of us really wants to be in the limelight, and when we are, we do it together. It's a path that we're going down, and a lot of people think that since we did the show that we automatically want to go in the entertainment business. But that's not the case – we're a very normal couple despite all of this.
What has surprised you about Ian since the show ended?
Nothing really. He's got a lot of patience.
For your wedding, will you have a planner or will you do it all yourself?
I'll do it all myself – no wedding planner. That's how small it's going to be. I'm exactly like my mom – I can't sit down. I'm constantly going, going, going so I like doing that stuff.
What is your worst fear about weddings in general?
I don't know because I always wanted a small wedding, so I think that would eliminate any cause for disaster. So in that sense, it should run smoothly.