Reeve with Alexandra, Matthew and Dana (holding Will) in 1997. Photo by: KEN REGAN / CAMERA 5
Incredible Journey: Christopher Reeve, 1952-2004| Christopher Reeve
Says Lieber: "The first good news came from Alexandra" – Reeve’s daughter, 20, a Yale undergraduate, who got to the hospital soon after her father was hospitalized at midnight. "His eyes flickered when she spoke to him. Dana breathed for the first time at that point." Meanwhile, Will, her 12-year-old son with Reeve, had been taken in by neighbors. Son Matthew, 24, a documentary filmmaker, was flying in from London with his and Alexandra’s mother, Gae Exton, 52, a British modeling agent. By Sunday afternoon, Oct. 10, "the family was gathered," says Exton, who remained close to Reeve after their nine-year relationship ended in 1987. Says Lieber: "The good news is Dana made it. I think he waited for her."

Reeve died at 5:20 p.m. of cardiac failure, brought on by a raging infection that had spread from a bed sore.

And yet the night before had been, for Reeve, a typical one. He watched Will’s hockey game not far from home. ("He tried to go to all of Will’s sporting events," says Reeve’s longtime friend, photographer Ken Regan.) Then the two had been driven back to the house and watched the Yankees-Twins game. Now on Tuesday, Oct. 12, the family, including his father, Frank Reeve, a writer, and mother, Barbara Johnson, now remarried, assembled there for a private memorial, along with friends like Robin Williams and Robert Kennedy Jr. "The stories people told were all uplifting and powerful," says one friend who attended.

All had come to acknowledge Reeve’s heroic tugging against – defiance of – the terrible, mortal restrictions that had affected his life ever since the accident shattered the top of his spine nearly 10 years ago. "He wanted to make his mark," says actress Blair Brown, a friend for many years. "Now it’s indelible."