In the mornings, “I have to emerge from the dreams in which I’m healthy and able to do anything,” wrote Reeve (rowing in Calgary in 1983). Photo by: KEN REGAN / CAMERA 5
Incredible Journey: Christopher Reeve, 1952-2004| Christopher Reeve
The number of Americans living with a spinal cord injury is 250,000, and there are 11,000 new injuries each year. Some 4 million Americans live with paralysis caused by SCI and a host of other disorders. But as Reeve said in a BBC interview conducted recently, "I’ve just decided I won’t listen to the rules. I mean, how many people are walking around who have been told by a doctor that, ‘Oh, I’m sorry, you’ve got six months to live’? It’s just a hell of a lot harder than I’d thought it was going to be – but that’s no excuse. You just have to keep going."

Just last summer he was down in New Orleans in 100°F heat to direct The Brooke Ellison Story, a fact-based A&E film about a woman paralyzed by a spinal-cord injury. Even with a rotating staff of nurses, he put in full days. "He was right on top of every little detail," says Lacey Chabert, who stars in the film. "There were obvious physical limitations, but there were no creative limitations."

Two days before Reeve died, his name even surfaced as a surprise litmus test in the second presidential debate, when Sen. John Kerry cited Reeve while discussing stem-cell research. Reeve, says the senator, left him a voice-mail message. "He was very excited," says Kerry, who first met Reeve in the early ’90s. (To read PEOPLE's exclusive interview with Kerry, click here.) Kerry has since spoken with Reeve’s widow, "and she sounded wonderfully courageous. Some laughter and some good feelings about just what a special guy he was."

Even Reeve’s political opponents sent condolences; President and Mrs. Bush issued a statement: "Mr. Reeve was an example of personal courage, optimism, and self-determination."