• ELLEN & CHRIS photo | Ellen Pompeo

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Published: Monday February 17, 2014 17:30 PM EST

2014

ELLEN & CHRIS

Love among the lettuce! Before her Grey's Anatomy days, Pompeo met music-producer husband Ivery at the grocery store in 2003, and the couple wed in 2007. A decade later, the actress's fame hasn't eclipsed her bond with her real-life McDreamy. "My husband is a fantastic guy, and very, very secure," Pompeo, now mom to 4-year-old daughter Stella, said in December. “I think that's probably why I’m so into him – because he's got so much swag. He's just so secure that nothing shakes him. If it did shake him, I wouldn't know.”