At 43, Marcia Cross has never married – but she knew early on that her boyfriend since January, stockbroker Tom Mahoney, 47 (in Beverly Hills in April), was a catch. One tip-off? He played word games with her in bed to calm her nerves before the Emmy nominations were announced in July. "He’s a keeper, huh?" she told PEOPLE. Still, her rep says, "The happy couple have not set a date for the wedding yet."