The Oscar nominee, 38, describes himself as "extra-medium maintenance." Sweat equity: He's up at 4:30 doing 500 push-ups, 1,000 sit-ups and a three-mile run before taking his three kids to school. Sacrificed for art: Shoulder-length hair. Man pampering: Regular manicures plus spa weekends "with a number of massages. That's when I allow myself to be high-maintenance."