Does this gown look familiar to you? "A lot of women over 40 told me they had one just like it," Buffalo, Minn., bridesmaid Joanne wrote in to PEOPLE. We've definitely seen similar versions of the same dress. They're all shiny, puffy – and despised. "I almost dropped out [of the wedding], that's how much I hated this dress," says Joanne. "I came to my senses and, of course, stuck with it for my best friend!"