LeAnn Rimes's Heavenly 30th Birthday Bash

See the star mark her milestone with a life-and-death-themed celebration

PIECE OF CAKE

Make a wish! Rimes takes a deep breath as she blows out the candles on her personalized cake from Sweet & Saucy – featuring a look-alike topper stomping on a coffin! "We laugh so hard all the time because people have this obsession with me in a bikini," she tells PEOPLE. "I've always said, 'I'm on the beach, what am I supposed to wear?'"